When the story is ugly and the truth of it is painful… Twisting, turning and trying to “rewrite” the past is NOT the answer. I have always, ALWAYS had a part. There is a freedom in researching and accepting my own part. A self created void cannot be filled with what I think it needs. Resentments? Of course. I could wallow in what I think others have not done for me or shout out what I think I deserve. However, the solution is – what part did I play?